S.A.F.E. Resources

 

Bullying

S.A.F.E. Stop BullyingIn 2019, the National Center for Education Statistics and Bureau of Justice Statistics reported that about 22 percent of students ages 12–18 reported being bullied at school during the school year.   In 2019, about 16 percent of students in grades 9–12 reported being electronically bullied during the previous 12 months. Bullying was identified by the Center for Disease Control and Department of Education as a perceived power imbalance through repeated unwanted aggressive behavior from an individual or individuals. Both indirectly and directly, perpetrators use physical, verbal, and relational abuse to harm individuals, resulting in depression, anxiety, isolation, and even suicide from victims. Despite intervention from bystanders, bullying is still an ongoing concern both in schools and workplaces.

Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence

Domestic violence, also known as intimate partner violence, affects both males and females in intimate relationships. According to the U.S. Department of Justice, domestic violence includes rape, sexual assault, robbery, and aggravated assault committed by intimate partners, immediate family members, or other relatives. A study found that approximately 1 in 4 (28.3%) women and 1 in 5 (21.6%) men have experienced physical violence in an intimate relationship. With domestic violence accounting for 21% of all violent crimes, studies have found that domestic violence was more commonly committed against females (76%) compared to males (24%).
 
If you or someone you know has been physically or sexually assaulted by their partner or spouse, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−7233 (SAFE) or 1−800−787−3224 (TTY), or visit the resources below:

Elder Abuse

 

S.A.F.E. Elder Abuse
According to the National Council on Aging, elderly abuse is identified as physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, exploitation, neglect, and abandonment by perpetrators ranging from family members to “trusted others.” Characterized as individuals above the age of 65, victims of elder abuse are more likely to experience abuse by a family member than any other individual. A study of 4,156 older adults found that “family members were the most common perpetrators of financial exploitation,” with friends and neighbors coming next, being followed by home care aides.
 
If you or an elder you know has been physically or sexually assaulted, please visit the resources below:

LGBT Abuse

 

S.A.F.E. LGBT AbuseAbusive partners in LGBT relationships use physical, sexual, and emotional abuse, in addition to financial control and isolation to control their partners. By maintaining power, abusers use threats and justification as tactics to continue the abuse. Some other tactics include intimidation, blame, privilege, and economic abuse in order to feel dominant and powerful in the relationship. Data compiled by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence shows that 43.8 percent of lesbian women and 61.1 percent of bisexual women experience rape, physical violence, or stalking in their lifetime as opposed to 35 percent of heterosexual women. The same studies report that 26 percent of gay men and 37.3 percent of bisexual men will also experience rape, violence, and stalking at some point.

If you or someone you know has been physically or sexually assaulted, please call or visit the LGBT-friendly resources listed below:
National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey
Human Rights Campaign
National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
The Anti-Violence Project Hotline: 1-212-714-1124
Gay Men’s Domestic Violence Project Hotline: 1-800-832-1901
MCEDV (Maine Coalition to End Domestic Violence): Abuse in LGBT relationships
NCADV (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence): Domestic Violence and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Relationships

Center for American Progress: Domestic Violence in the LGBT Community
Encyclopedia of social work: Domestic Violence in the LGBT Community
End the fear: Same sex domestic abuse
Domestic abuse/sexual Assault Service: Domestic Violence-Impact on LGBT Victims
LGBT Bucks: Domestic Abuse
Walter Shelter Inc, Inc: Domestic Violence and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Relationships
Safe House: Power and Control Wheel for LGBT Relationships

Sibling Abuse

 

S.A.F.E. Sibling Abuse
Sibling abuse was identified by the University of Michigan as the physical, emotional, or sexual abuse by one sibling towards another. Abuse between siblings ranges from pushing and shoving to using weapons for violent behavior. Rather than recognizing the behavior as abuse, parents will ignore the aggression that persists between siblings. Without seeing the behavior as physical abuse, much of the violence from siblings remains ignored. Though experts contend that it’s significantly underreported, it’s estimated that up to 80 percent of youth experience some form of sibling maltreatment. The prevalence of sibling abuse is higher than spousal or child abuse. https://endcan.org/2021/07/07/sibling-abuse-the-hidden-epidemic
 

Suicide Prevention

Mobile Apps

A Friend Asks (android, iOS)
MY3 (android, iOS)
Ask & prevent suicide (android, iOS)
Suicide Crisis Support (android)
HELP prevent suicide (android, iOS)
Stay alive (android, iOS) UK-based
Operation reach out (iOS) veterans & military family

Hotlines

1-800-suicide (1-800-784-2433)
text telephone (1-800-799-4889)
military veterans suicide hotline (1-800-273-talk) [press 1]
suicide hotline in Spanish (1-800-273-talk) [press 2]
LGBT youth suicide hotline (1-866-4-U-Trevor)

 

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